My name is Brent Bigham, and I would like to formally introduce myself to you by providing a brief snapshot of my life. Like most, it hasn’t been entirely easy or pretty. However, this journey taught me many lessons, equipped me with a wealth of knowledge, and ultimately led me here to you all. For that, I am eternally grateful, and I hope that my experiences can help to provide you with the healing that you seek.
I was born to an eighteen-year-old mother in late April of 1979. While many remember this time as one full of simplicity and bliss, it was quite the opposite for me. At a young age, I was forced to navigate an abundance of trauma mixed with a home life always on the brink of explosion. Though I loved my mother, I recognize that she didn’t have the tools to combat issues in her own childhood, let alone understand their existence or prevent them from seeping into my rearing. Despite facing the pain that came from these difficulties, it put me in an ideal place to heal myself and become a beacon that shows others what is truly possible for their own lives.
By seventeen, I was in love with a woman who would give life to similar abuses, though I didn’t know it at the time. Two years later, I was diagnosed with kidney failure, which left these two vital organs operating at forty percent. I found myself juggling frequent visits with the dialysis machine, not knowing where my life would go, and waiting five long years before receiving my first transplant in 2004. From here, my quality of life began to increase; I worked tirelessly, aiming to provide for my family which now included a son, and while there was never enough time in the day, I was happy. In 2006, we welcomed our second child, and the third came in the fall of 2008. Over the next few years, I watched my beautiful children grow, and just when life settled into a consistent routine, it seemed to start right back over.
After mending some drainage plumbing in 2014, I contracted bacterial pneumonia which resulted in relentless testing and worsened health in the ICU. My doctors decided to perform an external lung biopsy and placed me in a medically induced coma only intended for a few days, turned into a few weeks. Here, I had a vivid dream that my eldest child was injured in a bus collision, and upon waking up, I genuinely believed it happened. Unknown to me, this dream marked a profound transformation—I had transitioned from my old life and became a total walk-in for the version of myself I am today. I would not fully understand this until years later when a qigong master healer informed me that the very line keeping me tethered to this earth had been cut, signifying that I had died at some point.
The years following my coma brought about dark days that cast a shadow over the good ones. My wife took on a different shape, transforming from a woman with her own issues to a narcissistic abuser who weaponized love instead of showing it. Arguments became more frequent, happiness a stranger who seldom visited. In 2016, she was removed from our home due to a domestic violence charge after abusing me, and I found myself a single father of our three amazing children. Despite them giving me a reason to keep going, I spiraled into a deep depression and became trapped in a low vibrational energetic space that lasted for years. Before long, I was at my lowest point, treading the thin line that hovered over life and death. When I thought all was over, I received a vision of my future where I had become a person I deeply admired. It was clear, almost like a Zoom call with my future self. My mind flooded with emotion, and in that moment, I decided against giving up. That single day marked the start of my earnest healing journey both mentally and physically.
Though I suppressed my unique abilities throughout my childhood, I am now a proud Master Healer and Teacher, certified master life coach, certified evidential medium, and a Blue Star Master. In other words, I create a bridge between psychological topics and spirituality, guiding others to growth in mindset, their connection with themselves, and their relationship with the Divine. My trek in this life has been one with profound transformation in the face of many obstacles, and it is my mission to guide others through their own growth and healing. I hope that you are one of them; trust that I will be by your side every step of the way.